Should you be worried when life takes a difficult turn!!!
It’s been a new norm or may be more of a habit of worrying about things that are not in our control. We are worried about our future, career, relationships, plans and if they would be\go perfect. Its good to be practical, plan wise, and think logical while making a rational decision but absolutely a blunder to be petrified when things goes south. As the saying goes, not everything is perfect and equal, see the figures in your hand, the pinkie is the lest used and the smallest one.
When a person is fired from a job, lost someone special or fails in business, at a glance everything is blacked out. It feel as if that’s the end of career. People become delusional and do not know where to start and how to start. However, things are not that bad as it looks like, Everyone can and should do a fresh start. Few things one should consider
- Reflect back, take time to evaluate and see where you really messed up and think of actions you could have done better to avoid the catastrophe.
- If you don’t find yourself at guilt or the reason of failure, just let it go and start a new life, new profession, learn new skills, meet people from different arena than you are used to. It makes you feel good.
- Share your emotions and experience, the burden will be lifted and you feel released and relief.
- Let your failure be a success, start a meet up. its not late for anything to do it over or do it differently. Don’t let the devil sallow your eternal creativity. Don’t dwell on your failure or the suffering due to an event, don’t let you quality time taken by the things that were never in your control. Flow with the time and think positive. Keep doing something; write , read, play sports, travel places do whatever; but keep your life moving.
- Next time you run into situation like this, step back and think twice. Feel free and good about the decision you made, every decision is the best decision at the time you made because there are lot of unknown variables with multidimensional complexities. These type of problems of life have variable solution.
- Life is full of fun, its always sunny in some parts of the world. Don’t get afraid by the temporary darkness in your way of success and eternity. Live your life full of grace. Life is too short to dwell on the things that are not in your control and there is no going back. Feel good that things happen that way, its a great learning curve, a free life education that is not taught in school.
- Keep moving on, keep smiling, keep working, be generous, be humble and laugh more, make your enemy jealous.